{"id":585,"date":"2021-02-05T23:24:29","date_gmt":"2021-02-05T23:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/?p=585"},"modified":"2021-02-09T05:40:35","modified_gmt":"2021-02-09T05:40:35","slug":"i-love-you-so-much-it-hurts-domestic-violence-awareness-resources","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/2021\/02\/05\/i-love-you-so-much-it-hurts-domestic-violence-awareness-resources\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I love you so much it hurts\u2019: Domestic Violence Awareness &#038; Resources"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(Image courtesy of Abbotsford Police Department via Twitter)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This week the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.abbypd.ca\/\">Abbotsford Police department<\/a> released a series of Valentine\u2019s Day cards addressing domestic and intimate partner violence. The cards come at a timely manner; with Valentine\u2019s day fast approaching, <a href=\"https:\/\/covid-19.ontario.ca\/zones-and-restrictions?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI89vi09u37gIViaeGCh2UEAisEAAYASAAEgKN-PD_BwE\">Ontario COVID-19 lockdown<\/a> orders in place, and many forced to remain in their homes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first glance, the cards appear as any other romantic card would; heart shaped visuals and a cheesy message included. Phrases such as \u2018I love you so much it hurts\u2019 and \u2018You take my breath away\u2019 dawn the front of the cards.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery .kb-gallery-type-masonry.kb-gallery-id-_79bdfb-aa{margin:-5px;}.kb-gallery-type-masonry.kb-gallery-id-_79bdfb-aa .kadence-blocks-gallery-item{padding:5px;}.kb-gallery-id-_79bdfb-aa .kadence-blocks-gallery-item .kb-gal-image-radius, .kb-gallery-id-_79bdfb-aa .kb-slide-item .kb-gal-image-radius img{border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-gallery-wrap-id-_79bdfb-aa alignnone wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery\"><ul class=\"kb-gallery-ul kb-gallery-non-static kb-gallery-type-masonry kb-masonry-init kb-gallery-id-_79bdfb-aa kb-gallery-caption-style-bottom-hover kb-gallery-filter-none\" data-image-filter=\"none\" data-item-selector=\".kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" data-lightbox-caption=\"true\" data-columns-xxl=\"3\" data-columns-xl=\"3\" data-columns-md=\"3\" data-columns-sm=\"2\" data-columns-xs=\"1\" data-columns-ss=\"1\"><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\" style=\"max-width:1024px;\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic\" style=\"padding-bottom:66%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757-1024x676.jpg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"676\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757.jpg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757.jpg\" data-id=\"587\" class=\"wp-image-587\" srcset=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757-1024x676.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757-768x507.jpg 768w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/IMG_4757.jpg 1361w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\" style=\"max-width:1024px;\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic\" style=\"padding-bottom:66%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM-1024x685.png\" width=\"1024\" height=\"685\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM.png\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM.png\" data-id=\"592\" class=\"wp-image-592\" srcset=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM-1024x685.png 1024w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM-300x201.png 300w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM-768x514.png 768w, https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-05-at-6.29.05-PM.png 1244w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<p>(Images courtesy of Abbotsford Police Department via Twitter)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After taking a closer look, the back of each Valentine card reads the following message, \u201cDid you know that the Abbotsford Police Department responded to 1376 calls for service that were related to domestic violence. The sentiment on the front of this card is not a metaphor. Someone you may know experiences abuse at the hands of someone they love. It\u2019s time to #SpeakOut. If you, or someone you know needs support or help, call 604-859-5225.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Data released by Statistics Canada reveals a <a href=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/pub\/11-631-x\/2020004\/s10-eng.htm\">12 percent increase<\/a> in domestic disturbances reported to police agencies in the first months of the pandemic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When asked about the cards via interview with <a href=\"https:\/\/voiceonline.com\/abbotsford-polices-valentines-day-cards-promote-domestic-and-intimate-partner-violence-awareness\/\">The Indo Canadian Voice<\/a>, Abbotsford Police spokesperson Sgt. Judy Bird stated, \u201cAs they circulate, we hope they start conversation across Abbotsford about an issue, intimate partner violence, that many find very uncomfortable to discuss.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Additional data released by <a href=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/pub\/11-631-x\/2020004\/s10-eng.htm\">Statistics Canada <\/a>revealed over half of victim services in Ontario reported increases in the number of domestic violence victims they serviced from March to July 2020. With matters of domestic and intimate partner violence in mind amidst provincial lockdown, many should be aware of the available resources within Toronto for those in need of help.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below is an interactive map that highlights various shelter locations across Toronto, providing refuge and support to those who may be experiencing domestic or intimate partner violence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video height=\"720\" style=\"aspect-ratio: 1280 \/ 720;\" width=\"1280\" controls src=\"https:\/\/project.journalism.torontomu.ca\/jrn-305-2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/116\/2021\/02\/Toronto-Domestic-Abuse-Resources.m4v\"><\/video><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Women&#8217;s Habitat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/womenshabitat.ca\/\">Women\u2019s Habitat<\/a> is a refuge for women with or without children, who are at risk or experiencing any form of abuse. At Women\u2019s habitat everyone has their own bed but share common spaces such as; dining room, living room, kitchen, kids\u2019 play room, etc\u2026 The 25 bed shelter additionally provides ranging support services including housing, legal, child care, and counselling. Free meals are provided, as well as recreational activities and outings for children of all ages. Get in touch: 416-252-1785 (or call crisis line: 416-252-5829).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nellie&#8217;s Administration<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nellies.org\/\">Nellie\u2019s Administration<\/a> is a 36-bed shelter for women and children escaping domestic violence, struggling with poverty or homelessness. Nellie\u2019s also offers one-one-one counselling, recreational activities and educational programs on topics such as parenting, health and employment. Those staying at the shelter share household responsibilities including cleaning and cooking. Get in touch: 416-461-1084<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Door Family Shelter<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddoorshelter.ca\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.reddoorshelter.ca\/\">Red Door Shelters<\/a> have two locations; one for families and one for women fleeing violence. Both locations have 161 beds provide critical support services. Those visiting Red Door Shelter may be experiencing domestic violence, homelessness or poverty. Each individual circumstance is dependent on the length of stay at the shelter; some may stay for one night and others up to six months. Get in touch: Call 416-397-5637 to be referred through Central Family Intake (Family shelter). Or call the crisis line at 416-423-0310 (Vaw Shelters). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Street Haven<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.streethaven.org\/home.html\">Street haven<\/a> provides emergency shelter and integrated services for women experiencing, or at risk of homelessness. The 50 bed shelter provides women with a safe space to sleep, meals provided, clothing and medical support. Due to COVID-19, the shelter is open with some restriction and a limited number of supportive housing services are currently available. Get in touch: 416-967-6060 ext. 224 or a toll-free number at 1-844-967-6060.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fred Victor&#8217;s Women&#8217;s Hostel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fredvictor.org\/location-information\/\">Fred Victor&#8217;s Women&#8217;s Hostel<\/a> provides shelter for women, men and families living in extreme poverty, homeless or marginally housed. Get in touch: (416) 368-2642).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Robertson House<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.toronto.ca\/community-people\/community-partners\/emergency-shelter-operators\/about-torontos-shelter-system\/see-our-shelters\/\">Robertson House<\/a> is a 37 room shelter for pregnant women and women with children. Each family is given their own room with sleeping accommodations and shared communal areas, such as bathrooms, living rooms and a kitchen. Get in touch: 416-392-5662). \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Redwood Shelter<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theredwood.com\/\">Redwood shelter<\/a> is a safe space for women fleeing abusive homes. Women with and without children are given beds, meals and hygienic necessities. Redwood also offers counselling to cater to individual needs, provide referrals and accompany clients to meetings regarding child care, legalities, etc\u2026 Get in touch: 416-533-8538. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sistering<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>While <a href=\"https:\/\/sistering.org\/\">Sistering<\/a> technically is not a shelter, they provide a multitude of services for socially isolated or homeless women. Women visiting Sistering may have a disability, experienced trauma, mental health struggles, or are refugees or immigrants. The Bloor West Sistering location is open 24\/7, offering meals, clothing and shower facilities. Sistering also provides support groups, counselling and professional healthcare access. The Parkdale Sistering location is open Monday to Friday and specifically for senior and marginalized women. This location also offers individual case support, meals, workshops and violence against women programs. Get in touch: 416-926-9762 (962 Bloor St. W) 416-588-3939 (220 Cowan Ave). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Image courtesy of Abbotsford Police Department via Twitter) This week the Abbotsford Police department released a series of Valentine\u2019s Day cards addressing domestic and intimate partner violence. 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